![]() However, it looks like he didn’t get your position towards this issue. Telling him that he shouldn’t call you to satisfy his animal instincts when he comes back drunk is the least you could have done. He should realize that he has a girlfriend who respects his individuality, so he must respect her too, and it’s up to you make it happen. He’s a buffoon-that’s simple, but he’s all yours-that’s the problem. If this is his conscious, sober assessment of how to show respect to you, than your question is already answered sister. We honestly hope that his argument of being respectful was spewed from his mouth at a seriously hammered moment. Even then it was wrong, but that was in the past and now it is our time to stand up against things like this. Now! We do not live in the 18th century, so we do not permit guys treating us like objects. Sincerely, Matt and David MorainShe Says… ![]() The whole female sex will thank you as well, and you could very well turn out to be the patron saint of relationships everywhere. Guys everywhere will rush to get one of their own, so they too may prevent from making asses of themselves post-intoxication. Implement that with his cell phone somehow, and your problems will be solved.Įxtra bonus: obtain the patent and begin mass production. Before a driver can even start the vehicle, he/she has to pass a sobriety test, and if failed the car won’t start. Maybe you could devise some way to combine the Breathalyzer test with his cell phone much like is being done with cars now. Perhaps a you-must-be-this-sober-to-come-over system could be implemented. Once you issue an ultimatum, such as “I forbid you to call me after the bar,” you are almost assuredly creating a rift in the relationship, driving a spike between the two of you that will have to be confronted or else cause the end of your dating. The replacement (skank) will never be the same or as good as the original (you), and every time you push him away the quality of the substitutes will diminish. He will then try to fill the void in his heart created by your self-imposed absence with a lesser girl than yourself. The more you prevent him from talking to or seeing you, the more the desire to do so will increase. Hey, at least he wants to spend time with you.Īt the same time, by banning him from talking to you when he wants to, you’re pushing him away, possibly to the point of infidelity. Part of that could derive from Jagr-induced hormones, but take comfort in his faithfulness, and that he doesn’t go after other girls when he goes out. This, to me, says he is thinking about you before he goes to the bar, while he’s there, and as soon as he leaves. He didn’t communicate to you what he really meant to say: that when he comes home from the bar he wants to be with you, and no one else. Giving a half-hearted effort after being up all night at the bar and then passing out, leaving you frustrated and unfulfilled is not the ultimate display of respect it’s the ultimate display of a jackass. What should I do?įirst of all, your boyfriend is a bad liar. ![]() I told him that this was disrespectful and it made me feel like a “booty call.” However, he says that it’s the ultimate display of respect–that he could be going after some other girls when he goes out. ![]() I’m perfectly okay with that, except I tell him that he can’t call me when he wants to shack after he comes home wasted. Sometimes my boyfriend likes to go to the Zoo with his friends.
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